I had to reset twice and then exclude from controller. In the meantime I had initiation failures, half working device ,etc. Now I wish that my bulbs will never die otherwise next calibration will be done by me manually, using a hammer… 
Now I have a fully working device meaning I can activate the lights by both physical switch and over OH2.
Really appreciate for your step-by-step process. I’m sorry for the noob question but how to manage the network key + secure association ? I do have a Z+ Aeon stick but my devices are mixed Z+ and plain. I have default settings meaning Secure Inclusion Mode = ‘Entry control devices’ with a default network key. Due to the beta phase it may not be ideal to use secure inclusion ?
thank you !!