Insteon - 3 Way - One of the Dimmers is not getting updated

I am using an insteon 3 way setup using the dimmers. I can physically control the light from either switch and the light works and that status led’s are working as they should on both of the dimmers. When I use openhab [controlling from iphone] to control that light, the light turns on/off as it should, but only 1 of the dimmers shows the true status on its status LED’s, the other one doesn’t get updated.

I am not sure, if this is linking itself with the PLM or between devices, or something I need to do in openhab.

I am using the related argument in the default.items file.
Dimmer Entryway_Light “Entryway” (Family_Room) {insteonplm=“AA.BB.CC:F00.00.01#dimmer,related=DD.EE.FF”}
Dimmer Entryway_Light_B “Entryway B” (Family_Room) {insteonplm=“DD.EE.FF:F00.00.01#dimmer,related=AA.BB.CC”}

in the sitemap, i am only calling one of them
Frame label=“UpStairs Lights” {
Slider item=Entryway_Light
}

A little more searching, this tread solved the issue.
https://groups.google.com/d/msg/openhab/5VaXT-Jyqcc/KaUq9AYtEhQJ

Pretty much, i needed to add rules, do to how insteon stuff works.
rule "Entryway_Light_B"
when
Item Entryway_Light received command
then
sendCommand(Entryway_Light_B, receivedCommand)
end

Also, it appears you need to know which insteon device is connected to the load, and which one(s) is the virtual switch(s). Or you need to do some trial and error.