Of course not. Generally you’ll find discussions under two-way switching.
You’ve given no detail about what you have actually done,so there’ll be no specific “change that” answers.
This thread has fairly extensive exploring of both rules based and follow profile based solutions.
Later on in that thread you will find an outline of why cross-linking two Items, each with two channel links,one of which is profiled ‘follow’, can end in tears. But it is device specific, it depends what the devices respond with when commanded.