I first did an exclusion of the device, and then i did a hard reset of the zstick (aotec).
Did a new inclusion, and i put the remote very close to the stick. For the first time the remote gave an ack by blinking green. I can now press a button and there is some reaction. Looks like the system is queueing up some requests, and as far as i can interpret it is talking to the device.
I just kept pressing the button when the log indicated device was sleeping. Then, after a while, there was possible to set an wakeup time/interval in habmin. It was “0”, i set 10 seconds, hoping this would mean it would stay awake long enough to exchange some information.
Kept pressing a button from time to time, and suddenly something “came loose” and the system looked like it was creating the device, i think it had enough info to detect it, and create it.
The main thing i did was reset the zstick, so it forgot what it had seen of the remote, and also forgot the fibaro dimmer2. Then i did a new scan, initiating the inclusion mode on the remote a couple of times, close to the stick, until it acked with a green blink.
I dont know what and if something was wrong, log was too fast for me to recognize something obvius.